Let me assure you that you are not the onlyone.
We all have faced it at some point in ourlives or are still facing it.
They are the bullies.
In society, you will often come across someobnoxious beings who are intolerant and seeks pleasure by irritating or disturbing others.
For some, it kind of entertainment and hobby.
They simply try to intimidate us to make usdo something that we don’t want to do.
The bullies often try tomake us feel bad aboutourselves and in most times they succeed.
They are often a source of depression formany students, especially in high schools.
So, now the question is that is there anyway to deal with the bullies or we will just have to succumb to the derogatory remarksthat they make about us?The most important step to deal with the bullies is to use yourhegemonic power.
It basically means that you will not denywhat they are saying or asking you to do by using force but try to convince them why youdon’t want to do it.
You need to know that most bullies have becomelike that because they are not loved by anyone.
Hence, if you treat them well, you can solvethe problem from its roots.
Remember that there is no substitute for hardwork.
If you keep on working hard and just believein your own capabilities, there is no force on Earth that can derail you from your track.
Just stay focused and letthem talk whateverthey want to.
Your success will speak for yourself.
Once you are successful, they will move awayby themselves.
Remember, former US Presidents Bill Clintonand Barack Obama were bullied when they were a child.
It very well justifies how success is thebest answer to all your problems.
You knowit well that empty vessels make morenoise.
You should also try to understand and realizethat why you are being bullied.
If you understand that it is your fault thatis making you a laughingstock, you need to work on them and groom yourself.
If you are bullied and you know that you aregoing wrong somewhere, it might be your way of approachability or way of speaking, youneed to work on it and overcome that problem of yours.
It is also very important to face the bulliesboldly.
As much as you try to hide from them, theywill hunt you even more.
Think of the bullies as some challenges inyour life and face them boldly.
Listen to what they say but never take whatthey say seriously.
Hence stay focused and don’t get distracted.
Most importantly use your brains and not brawnto deal with the bullies.
Do not waste your energy on something thatwill not give you anything in return.
Hence, keep on educating yourself which willhelp you to outwit them.
Keep yourself engaged in different kinds ofworks and automatically you will stop paying attention to what a bully says.
If you know someone who is being bullied,you should help him or her and if it is serious then you shoulddefinitely report it to anadult.
Don’t get bullied or let anyone get bullied.